Building up one another

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Lots of scriptures talk about edifying others. The word literally means to “build up,” as in to build a house from the ground up. Building others up has a very specific purpose in the scriptures. In Ephesians 4, the word is used several times in succession. For example, Paul says that God gave apostles, prophets, evangelists, shepherds, and teachers “to equip the saints for the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ” (vs. 12). This is to take place until everyone attains the unity of faith and grows up into Christ, “from whom the whole body, joined and held together by every joint with which it is equipped, when each part is working properly, makes the body grow so that it builds itself up in love” (vs. 16).

A few verses later, Paul says, “Let no corrupt talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear” (vs. 29). 1 Thessalonians 5:11 says, “Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing.” Romans 15:2 says, “Let each of us please his neighbor for his good, to build him up.” Paul uses the same word when he says that we are God’s fellow workers, God’s field, and God’s building (1 Cor. 3:9). Paul told the Corinthians that the spiritual gifts they seek should be for the building up of one another.

In his second letter to the Corinthians, Paul said that “it is in the sight of God that we have been speaking in Christ, and all for your upbuilding, beloved” (2 Cor. 12:19). There are plenty more times that this expression is used. The Bible is clear that we are to build each other up with both our words and actions, and when we do, a beautiful house of the Lord emerges!

Count Others More Significant than Yourselves

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Our family has a hard and fast rule when we visit anywhere, whether it’s a restaurant, hotel, or are a guest somewhere. Our rule is to always leave a place better than you found it. This is a rule that we never break. As parents, it’s great to watch our kids pick up trash, tidy things up, and wipe things down. We taught them not to refuse to clean up other people’s messes. Even if the mess is not ours, we still clean up and leave the place better than we found it.

But a more important principle that we need to teach is to always leave a person better than what we found them. There may be some things in their life that is out of sorts. They may be struggling with something or are just having a terrible day. We may not be able to fix their problems, but are we leaving them in better shape than when we found them?

Romans 12:10 (ESV) says, “Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor.” Philippians 2:3 says, “Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves.” In other words, leave people in better shape than you found them. Doing this takes a tremendous amount of self-control. We have to be intentional about it. We have to stay positive. When we build others up, we are built up too.

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